Bhagavad Gītā Chapter Three verse 34

indriyasyendriyasyārthe rāgadveṣāu vyavasthitāu |
tayor na vaśam āgacchhet tāu hyasya paripanthināu ||

rāga - colour; attraction; delight in; vehement desire of; a musical note, harmony, melodydveṣa - aversion, hatred. dislike, repugnanceindriya - senses

Commentaries and Reflections

TKV Desikachar:

Each person has two forces Rāga and Dveṣa.
They are there to serve you, not you them.